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Apr\u00e8s plus de vingt quatre ann\u00e9es de vie commune, ma ch\u00e9rie a dit oui. Oui mais \u00e0 une condition, que je finisse d’abord les travaux de la salle de bain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vous ne trouvez pas qu’elle abuse un peu ? C’est une forme de chantage tout de m\u00eame ? Mettre dans la balance une demande aussi importante pour notre vie et du vulgaire bricolage, certes qui a un peu en retard, mais du bricolage, c’est presque honteux. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Par chance la salle de bain est presque termin\u00e9e, une petite fuite de rien du tout \u00e0 colmater, une double porte \u00e0 poser qui devrait bient\u00f4t \u00eatre livr\u00e9e, un peu de silicone et deux plinthes \u00e0 coller et ce sera termin\u00e9. L’affaire d’un ou deux ans de travail si tout va bien, si je ne tombe pas \u00e0 nouveau de v\u00e9lo entre temps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais maintenant qu’elle s’est enfin d\u00e9cid\u00e9e, j’h\u00e9site. C’est vrai, il s’agit d’un engagement \u00e0 long terme et ce n’est pas une mince affaire tout de m\u00eame. Et si nous faisions le mauvais choix ? Des ann\u00e9es durant j’ai tergivers\u00e9, est-ce vraiment utile, \u00e0 qui cela fait donc plaisir, que vont en penser les autres, y aura-t-il un juste retour sur investissement ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mon pr\u00e9c\u00e9dent mariage, a connu des hauts et des bas, sans doute comme tous les mariages, mais cette fois je voudrais que tout soit parfait, l’entente totale, la fusion des \u00e2mes. Si je dis oui, je signe au moins pour six ans, sinon ce serait franchement du g\u00e2chis. Mais qu’est-ce que mes enfants vont penser ? Que je fais ma crise de la cinquantaine ? Que je ne sais pas quoi faire de mon argent ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tout aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 plus simple si elle avait dit non. D’abord je n’aurai pas la pression pour finir cette fichue salle de bain, ensuite je ne serai pas en train de me torturer le neurones pour rechercher la meilleure configuration pour cette union, enfin je ferai de substantielles \u00e9conomies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J’h\u00e9site encore, mais comme je l’aime beaucoup alors bon… Je pense que je vais me jeter \u00e0 l’eau, je vais acheter un iMac et laisser tomber Windows.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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